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"A Woman's Place"

by Rachel Greco, Grandma's Attic
as published in Grandma's Scrapbasket

The following is from a 1950's Home Economics textbook intended for High School girls, teaching how to prepare for married life.  I picked this little goody up off the internet.  Think about how much times have changed! And for heaven's sake, DON'T show this to my husband!

1) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal -- on time.  This is a way of letting him know you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs.

2) Prepare yourself.  Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives.  Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking.  Be a little gay and a little more interesting.  His boring day may need a lift.

3) Clear away the clutter.  Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.  Then run a dust cloth over the tables.  Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order.

4) Prepare the children.  Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces.  If they are small, comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes.  They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5) Minimize the noise.  At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum.  Try to encourage the children to be quiet.  Be happy to see him.  Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6) Some Don'ts:  Don't greet him with problems or complaints.  Don't complain if he's late for dinner.  Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7) Make him comfortable.  Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom.  Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.  Arrange his pillow and offer to take his shoes.  Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice.  Allow him to relax and unwind.

8) Listen to him.  You may have a dozen things to tell him but the moment of his arrival is not the time.  Let him talk first.

9) Make the evening his:  Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment.  Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure; his need to be home and relax.

10) The goal:  Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

Sigh!

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